Have you got Vulvodynia or Vaginismus?
Vaginismus is basically just tight pelvic floor muscles, which makes getting a tampon in or having penetrative sex painful or difficult. Your pelvic floor can be generally tight all the time (think about how tight your hamstrings get when youāve been sat driving all day, the day after a run or youāve never stretched them until that yoga class and down-dog was an experience..). Your pelvic floor muscles can also go into spasm when thinking about or having anything penetrate the vagina (like when your calf goes into cramp in the night). Both arenāt pleasant, and both are totally treatable. Treatment is exactly what youād do with any other muscle ā learn to relax them and give them a gentle (and regular) stretch. It shouldnāt hurt.
Vulvodynia is a pain in and on the vulva, where tests have shown there to be nothing āwrongā. I like to think of vulvodynia in these terms: your body has decided that your vulva is under atta
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